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    Hej mine sødeste læsere! Jeg har været så spændt på at dele dagens indlæg med jer! Jeg har sådan set frem til at skrive det. I dag vil jeg i samarbejde med CLUSE watches sætte fokus på et meget vigtig emne – nemlig det at elske sig selv. Kampagnen hedder “Time to love me”. Nu hvor valentinsdag er rund om hjørnet, og alt er focus på kærlighed, fohold, gaver mm, føler vi/jeg at det er ligeså hvis ikke mere vigtigt at sætte fokus på det at elske sig selv!

    Hi my angels! I am so happy to share today’s post with you guys. I have been looking forward to write it for a long time. Today I want in collaboration with CLUSE watches set focus on a very important topic – self love. The campaign is called “Time to love me”. Now when valentines day is round the corner and there is so much focus on love, relationships etc. I/we feel that it’s also very or even more important to set focus on loving yourself!

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    “Når jeg vil forkæle mig selv går jeg op i min yndlings cafe og køber mig min sædvanlige yummy latte med vanilje sirup. Ellers går jeg mig en hyggelig tur og køber mig en stor buket smukke blomster. Det giver mig sådan en glæde, og så elsker jeg at se dem blomstre i vores hjem.”   //   “When I want to spoil myself I go to my favourite coffee shop any buy myself my usual yummy latte with valilia sirup or I go and buy gorgeous flowers. It gives me such a joy, and I love looking at them all pretty in my home.”

    Når man elsker sig selv ser man altid langt mere tiltrækkende og sexet ud! Når jeg ser en kvinde der bare virkelig kan bære sig selv, syntes jeg bare det er så smukt og inspirerende. Det fanger ens opmærksomhed med det samme, og man falder pladask for deres personlighed! En person der med 110% procent har blæst mig omkuld, så er det Felicity Hayward. Jeg mødte hende gennem mit arbejde på ASOS, da vi begge arbejde der som Personlig stylist. Felicity var og er specialist indenfor kvinder med smukke former, og så arbejder hun selv som curve model. Hun blæser alle omkuld med hendes sexede selvsikkerhed som stråler gennem alt. Hun hviler i sig selv, og det er en befrielse at være omkring en som hende. Hun har også en super populær Instagram profil, hvor hun dagligt inspirere en masse unge kvinder i det at elske sig selv. Find den HER.
    Når man lære at slappe mere af i sig selv, så bliver man også langt mere åben. Man føler sig “fri”, da man ikke længere bruger tid og kræfter på at tænke over hvad andre synes om en. Hvad end de mon tænker, så er det jo pokkers ligegyldigt, så længe du selv er glad og tilfreds med den person du er! Og det burde du. Det burde vi alle!! <3 Jeg kan ikke beskrive med ord hvor vigtigt det er at vi husker på at elske os selv.

    Det at lære at elske os selv betyder ikke at man er for selvbevidst eller egoistisk, og pludseligt hver dag skal bruge flere timer på at beundre sig selv. Slet ikke.. Det betyder at du pludselig har det godt med at være i din egen krop! Du acceptere den du er, og lære at have det godt med det. Lære at leve med sine fejl og mangler, og faktisk begynder at se det som ens stærke sider.

    Loving yourself makes you look way more confident and sexy! When I see a woman who relax in herself it’s such an inspiration. It’s so catching, and you straight away fall in love with their personality! One person who always have blown me away with her confidence and glowing personality is Felicity Hayward. I met her at ASOS, she was like me working there as a Personal Stylist. Felicity was and is the curve specialist. She also works as a curve model and blows everybody away with her stunning look and confidence. She really inspired me to accept myself, and to make the most out of each day. (She also run a very popular Instagram where she daily inspire tons of young woman out there. You can find her HERE.)
    When you learn to relax more in yourself you also get more open, you feel more free and you don’t care about others opinions in the same way, because whatever they might think or say you are feeling great with the person you are! And you should. We all should! <3 I can’t describe how important it is to fall in love with yourself.

    Falling in love with yourself doesn’t mean you turn selfish or ego, and you suddenly spend hours a day admiring who you are. It means you fell home and great in your own skin! You accept who you are and actually feel good about it. All your flaws because a strength and you start liking the parts about you, which you maybe have hated and tried to hide for many years!

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    Find mit smukke Cluse ur på deres hjemmeside her.   // Find my beautiful Cluse watch on their website here.

    Man behøver ikke at finde kærligheden før man finder ens selvsikkerhed, men det var sådan jeg fandt min. Da jeg mødte Simon begyndte jeg pludselig at føle mig tilpas med den person jeg var. Pludselig begyndte jeg, at kunne lide mig – Isabella, og så kom selvtilliden frem, og nu kan jeg lide mange af de ting ved mig selv som jeg har brugt flere år på at skjule.

    I kender det quote med at “For at kunne elske andre, skal man elske sig selv først” – det giver pludselig langt mere mening for mig nu. Jeg føler at siden jeg er begyndt at tro mere på mig selv, og føler mig mere tilpas med den person jeg er, så er jeg også langt mere åben og har mere at give. Du får mere energi og overskud! Man bliver en stærkere person, man acceptere man er anderledes og det er sådan en lettelse. Jeg har nu langt mindre “guidelines” for mig selv, specialt når det kommer til mad, fordi jeg føler mig langt mere tilfreds nu når jeg ser mig selv i spejlet. Når man begynder at kunne mærke de ændringer til det positive, så vil man også mærke at verden bliver et langt nemmere og behageligere sted.

    Når du begynder at slappe af og giver den krop en pause fra alle dine negative tanker, så tro mig når jeg siger – at din krop vil takke dig for det big time. Det giver en langt mere overskud og energi til at give til andre, da man ikke længere bruger alle sine kræfter på at få sig selv ned med nakken. Jeg kender alt for godt til alle mine fejl og mangler, samt positive og negative sider, og jeg har besluttet at acceptere dem. Det betyder ikke, at jeg er glad eller stolt over dem eller at jeg ikke vil arbejde på mig selv. Vi bør altid arbejde på os selv, for at forbedre os og gå efter vores drømme, men istedet vælge at bruge ens energi på at få en op med hovedet frem for ned med nakken. Der er nok derude der nok skal prøve at få os ned, så lad os ikke også være en af dem!

    You do not have to find love first to find that confidence, but that’s how it happened to me. When I found Simon and he made me relax in my own skin, I suddenly start liking me – Isabella, and I finally found confidence in my own skin which was an unbeilable feeling.

    You know this quote “To love others you must love yourself”, and for me that makes so much sense now. I feel like now I have so much more to give, I feel like a person with more energy and happiness. You become stronger and more open to let yourself go. Now I have way less restrictions to myself, especially when it comes to what I eat, because I finally feel okay with what I see in the mirror. When you find this confidence, you will see how the world suddenly changes to a much nicer place because you learn to block out all the negative things.

    When you start to relax and give your body a break from your negative thought, believe me –  your body will thank you big time for it! It actually makes you a happier person. It gives you more energy and suddenly you gain extra love and energy to give to others, because you no longer spend that energy on comparing yourself to others and making yourself sad. I know perfectly well all my positive and negative sides, and I decided to accept them. That does not mean that I  am satisfied with all my bad sides etc. Loving yourself also doesn’t mean that you should stop improving yourself, we always should – but instead of bringing yourself down, you should be your own beat friend and get yourself up – there are enough out there, who is making it difficult for us – lets not be one of them too!

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    Det er aldrig for sent, at starte med at elske sig selv, og jeg ved at det er noget jeg aldrig vil stoppe med at arbejde på. Det jeg gør for, at gøre mig selv glad er at jeg hver morgen når jeg kigger mig selv i spejlet siger jeg ser smuk ud. Det lyder måske lidt tosset, men prøv det og prøv at gøre det over en længere periode. Det får faktisk en selv til at få det bedre! Accepter dig selv for den du er, og stop med at sammenlige dig selv med andre.

    Du kan vise kærlighed til dig selv på mange måder. Jeg finder en stor glæde i at købe mig selv blomster! Min mor som betyder alt for mig har siden jeg var lille altid taget mig med ud i haven for at beundre de smukke blomster vi havde. Det gør vi stadig, så det giver mig sådan en lykkelig og varm følelse indeni. Jeg har også lært at tillade mig selv de ting jeg har lyst til, når jeg har lyst til dem. Det lyder måske også lidt ondtsvagt, men det ikke at have for mange begrænsninger til mig selv, har hjulpet mig meget. Hvis du har lyst til en stor portion pasta, så gør det dog! Det er de små ting i livet som er med til at udgøre et større billede. Frem for at kæmpe imod den vi er, lad os accepthere os selv og ikke være bange for at have fejl. Det er det uperfekte der er så smukt!

    It’s never too late to start loving yourself, and I know I need to work on it each day too. What I do to make myself happy is that I tell myself in the mirror when I get up in the morning that I look good. It sounds silly, but if you keep doing it, you’ll see it actually makes you feel better. I accept me for me, and I’ve stopped comparing myself with others. 

    You can show love to yourself in many ways. I find a big pleasure in buying myself flowers! My mum means the whole world to me, she always spend hours with me in the gardens when I was a kid, and we still do. We always admired all the beautiful flowers, so for me that brings that fuzzy warm loving feeling. I also allow myself to do what I feel for, when I feel for it – but with moderation. Like if I’m craving a small piece of cake or some pasta, I will no longer tell myself I’m not allowed to have it. I know it sounds silly, but small tings like this which makes you happy – why not allow yourself to do it? Instead of fighting with ourself, beating ourself up or being hard on ourself, we need accept who we are in your own imperfect skin. Being imperfect is what’s so beautiful.

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    21st januar 2017

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    Jeg er helt enig – autenticitet er SÅ sexet! 🙂

    Love this post Isabella! Yes, self love is so important and the foundation of every relationship and friendship.
    I used to compare myself all the time and know how poisonous it can get for the soul and when I fell back to old habits, I try to remember myself how I miserable felt back then and how unhappy I was in any relationship, from boyfriends to friends.
    There is a quote which I find is so accurate speaking of comparing success, skills and so many other goals:

    Don’t compare your beginning to someone else’s middle.

    which helps me quite a lot.
    And as always, the photography is just beautiful! Love the grey and orangy-red contrast!
    Love, Rosa xx

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    That’s so true! it really is the whole foundation to happiness. <3

    That is actually a good reminder, because why should we compare us self with others if it makes us feel so bad? It's good to find motivation and inspiration in others, but we should not compare ourself.

    Best quote love! I will make sure to remember that - becasuse god It's so true!!

    Sending you the biggest hug from here.

    All the best,
    Isabella xx

    Awww thanks <3 Really glad you like it.

    Biggest hug
    Isabella xx

    I love the message in this post! Its very hard these times not to compare to others, I think its the key to happiness and self love not compare to others.

    It really is! It’s the hardest things – especially now with all this social media. But it’s “just” to learn to block it out. <3

    Biggest hug
    Isabella xx

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