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    What others think about me

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    Hvad tror du andre tænker om dig?

    Det er noget jeg har brugt ekstremt meget energi, bekymringer og tanker på de sidste mange mange år. Lige siden jeg begyndte bloggen faktisk! Folk var meget umodne omkring det. Blogging var helt nyt dengang jeg startede for mange år siden, og jeg var en af de første bloggere i Danmark til at starte en modeblog.
    Det var normalt, at folk fniste af den/mig, og dømte mig på hvad jeg gjorde og lagde ud i offentligheden.
    Jeg har med årene lært at tage stor afstand fra det. Bloggen har bragt mig så ubeskrivelig langt. London, mit studie, mit job for ASOS, Godmorgen Danmark, vinde modeblogprisen osv. Ville aldrig være sket, hvis det ikke var for bloggen, og jeg takker mig selv for, at jeg aldrig er “bukket under” eller stoppet pga. dømmende blikke, og folk der ikke troede, at jeg kunne.

    What do you think others think about you?

    This is something I’ve used very much time, energy, concerns and thoughts thinking about the last several years. Ever since I started my blog! People were very immature about it. Blogging was brand new in Denmark when I started many years ago, and I was one of the first bloggers in Denmark to start a fashion blog.
    It was normal that people talked about it behind my back and judge me on what I did and posted on my blog.
    I have over the years learned to take distance from it. The blog has brought me so for. London, my study, my job for ASOS, Good Morning Denmark, winning Denmark’s blogger award  etc. All of this would never have happened if it wasn’t for the blog, and I thank myself that I never or stopped due to peoples judgements. People who would have loved to see me fail, and people who did not believe that I could.

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    Her sidder jeg i Chamonix, og er fuldtids blogger. Kan arbejde fra alle steder i verden, og er ekstremt lykkelig og stolt over, at jeg helt selv er kommet hertil!
    Ja, det har taget mig mange år, men hvor har det været en ubeskrivelig sej rejse, og hvor har det været fedt, at jeg har kunnet dele alt med jer.
    Dømmende blikke og folk der ikke ønsker en det bedste, vil vi møde resten af livet. Det der betyder noget, er hvordan vi vælger at håndtere og tackle deres blikke, og det de tænker om os.
    Vi skal simpelthen tage så stor afstand fra det, som vi overhovedet kan og lære at være ligeglade. Ryst det af dig!
    Hvad kan du bruge det til? Intet. Det der for alvor betyder noget, er hvordan du ser dig selv, og ikke hvordan andre ser dig. Vær loyal, glad, smil og byg dine egne drømme. Arbejd med dig selv. Lær at elske dig selv – jeg lover dig, at når du er glad og tilfreds, så vil det skinne igennem.
    Dagligt at bekymre sig om andres tanker, vil kun bringe masser af negativitet ind i din hverdag. Den har du jo ikke behov for. Vi skal i stedet lære at være glade for os selv, det vil gøre os stærke nok til ikke, at bekymre os om andres tanker.

    Here I am in Chamonix and working as a full time blogger. I can work from anywhere in the world and are extremely happy and proud that I came this far!
    Yes, it has taken me many years, but it has been an incredible tough journey, and it has been great that I have been able to share everything with you.
    Judgmental glances and people who do not want the best for you, we will meet the rest of our life. What matters is how we choose to handle and tackle their eyes and what they think about us.
    We simply have to take as much distance from it as we possibly can and learn to be indifferent. Shake it up!
    What can you ise their judgements to? Nothing. What really matters is how you see yourself and not how others see you. Be loyal, happy, smile and build your own dreams. Work with yourself. Learn to love yourself – I promise you that when you are happy, it will shine through.
    Daily worrying about other people’s thoughts will only bring a lot of negativity into your everyday life. You do not need that. We must learn to be happy with ourselves, it will make us strong enough not to worry about other people’s thoughts.

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    This is such an amazing and inspiring post! I remember wanting to start a blog long before I actually did, but was too worried what people would think or say about me behind my back, but now I’ve learnt to put myself first and do what I enjoy without worrying about others.

    These photos are simply stunning, and you look gorgeous, Isabella!

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    That how it should be love <3 Focus on you, and what makes you happy! That's the only way.

    Sendning you a bit hug from here. Such a strong person you are.

    Best
    Isabella xxx
    AND happy Easter!!

    These pictures are amazing! A very inspiring blog post!
    Katie x
    http://www.katieprimrose.co.uk

    Thanks a lot Karie <3

    Wish you an amazing Easter Holiday,

    Best
    Isabella xx

    It’s really amazing to read a post about such an important topic that no one really talks about.
    As a blogger myself, it’s reassuring to hear that I am not the only one who is struggling with other’s people judgements.
    But as you say, the best thing to do is just to ignore them, then big things happen 🙂

    Have a lovely day and enjoy the snow!
    Lara x

    http://www.ellesfactory.com

    That’s actually true, no one really talks about it – which is a shame!
    Excatly, that’s the only way we can grow 🙂 not caring.
    You go girl <3

    Wish you an amazing Easter,

    Best
    Isabella xxx

    Thanks a lot love <3 You are too sweet!

    Biggest hug
    Isabella xx

    Love all the outfits from this trip! Are your sunglasses the Ray Ban Caravan? If you don’t mind me askin, what size do you wear?

    Thank’s a lot lovely 😀 Glad you like them!
    Yes exactly that’s the Ray Ban Caravan – I unfortunately don’t remember my size – I think the “regular” size?

    I liked to them under this post <3

    Biggest hug
    Isabella xx

    Truer (is this even a word?) words have never been spoken. It must have been really hard for you, being one of the first fashion bloggers in denmark – there are so many people who don’t like new things and as soon as they can talk behind your back, they will do so. I’ve been struggleling with putting myself down, because I was (and still am) always wondering what they could possibly think of me. But to be honest, all the thinking didn’t make me feel better and instead, I would stop blogging for a long time. Blogging is someting that makes me really happy, so I’m glad, I started all over and doing my thing. It feels so good and I’m learning to overhear others (which is hard).
    Thank you so much for this article, because it shows that even big bloggers like you struggled with those thoughts. I love your honesty and kindness and I hope you’ll be even more successful in the future and leave those talkers wondering why they spent (wasted) so much time on talking behind your bag <3

    It wasn’t easy that’s for sure, but you learn how to grow strong and then you start to not care about others 🙂
    I am sorry to hear you stopped blogging for a long time love, that’s the unfair part about caring. I am so glad you started again and now do your own thing. Goes for what makes you happy – that’s the most important thing in life!
    So happy you commented <3 Thanks a lot love. You go girl!!!

    Biggest hug
    Isabella xxx

    AND Happy Easter!!

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